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雁过留声

请各位博友不吝赐教!

 
 
 

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早起竟然可以使家庭兴旺!  

2018-03-05 09:33:01|  分类: 默认分类 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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早起竟然可以使家庭兴旺! - 古雁 - 雁过留声

请问大家,这个礼拜有没有早起?


再来,早起以后,有没有把家里面收拾干净?


所以学问受不受益,要看力行的程度。而且老祖宗有一句话说“读书贵在变化气质”,读书会变化气质,因为你读了、明理了,你会去做,你去做了以后,你的心境会改变。心境一变,相由心生,气质就变了。所以学问的根本,还是在心地的功夫。


而我们看,“黎明即起”是早起,是一个行为,而对他内心的影响是什么?人一早起就懂得振作、懂得自立自强、懂得珍惜光阴、不蹉跎光阴,这个心性上就开始变化了,也懂得突破懒惰的惯性。


我们看每一个经句,你从正面,再从反面去看。假如他不早起,他睡得很晚,隔天又晚起,他身体就搞坏了,身心都受损。而且一个人睡得很晚,精神非常颓靡、懒散,这差别就很大了。


所以曾国藩先生说到,“晏起”,晏起就是晚起,“为败家之凶德”。这是不好的行为。晚起,这个行为决定让这个家会败掉。


曾国藩先生又讲,他的家道经营得很好,他几百年过后,他的家族还出很多在这个时代很优秀的人,不简单,他的话会给我们很好的启示:“治家以不晏起为本”。


所以人学了经典,会给自己算命,也会给自己的家庭算命。现在大家屈指一算,我们这个家要兴还是要衰?很多家长听完以后:对,这太重要了,明天,帮孩子按闹钟,去给孩子叫起床。孩子起床了,自己再回去睡。这不行哦,教育很重要要以身作则,不然孩子心里不服气。


我们也曾经跟孩子分享早起的重要性,结果孩子都说:妈妈都睡到中午。我们话接下来都不知道怎么讲,只能说:妈太辛苦了。你不能让孩子对父母失去信心嘛。所以坦白讲,在学校教书,与其说教孩子,不如说教他的父母更重要了。不然父母跟老师唱反调,不白教了吗?


所以现在讲的每一句,不是先要求孩子,是先要求父母、长辈自己先做。 

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